My old person trait is that I think ‘ghosting’ is completely unacceptable and you owe the other person a face-to-face conversation.

  • Carlos Solís
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    My old person trait is that when I purchase a printer, I should be able to use whatever is the cheapest compatible ink without the printer treating me like I’m smuggling unicorn blood out of Narnia

    • @altoverse@lemmy.world
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      122 years ago

      i’m a little iffy on this one… if it’s something complicated/with lots of parts like how to repair your phone screen or something i prefer the video format, but for things like how to install certain softwares i totally agree with you

      • @owsei@lemmy.world
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        42 years ago

        if I’m reading documentation for a software library, i want that written.

        cuz i can read useful paragraphs faster than how ppl talk

        but if it’s something highly visual, maybe a video is better

    • @Lyrl@lemm.ee
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      I might end up wanting a video, but there is so much low-quality content in search results. I can click into and out of six bad sets of written instructions in the time it takes me to watch one video far enough through to realize it doesn’t answer my question. Please, search engines, place more written instructions higher up.

  • @smoll_pp_operator@vlemmy.net
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    672 years ago

    I prefer written guides to video guides.

    Video has some clear advantages when showing off a 3D space and otherwise, but I dislike pausing them over and over. Especially if my hands are covered in oil and grease, a paper version is superior to a screen.

      • @Zana@startrek.website
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        152 years ago

        Don’t worry, the five second answer to your question is somewhere in this 25 minute video. Good luck finding it.

    • I was playing Sim’s 2 castaway recently on an emulator, because nostalgia, and when I was struggling to find an item in game, I googled for it and found some surprise bonus nostalgia: a guide to the game that was plain black text on white background, all on one page, with a chapter section and headings labelled, and ASCII art up top. It made me long for simpler days

      I also remember getting a cheat book with a gaming magazine, or very rarely getting access to a printer to print off cheats, or finding some online and writing the important ones down manually.

      I studied biochemistry in uni, and usually the practical labs had the protocols and stuff in a paper booklet we’d get at the start of term, but one year, they switched to using iPads for that. I hated it; it felt unhygienic, even though I was careful to avoid contamination, and it was awkward to flip back and forth between sections.

    • @pixel_witch@lemmy.world
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      62 years ago

      Agree a hundred percent. Also I grew up in an area that still doesn’t have consistent cell reception so everyone always has a set of wrenches and the Haynes manual to their car.

    • ParadeofCorpses
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      52 years ago

      Holy shit, yes! Give me a step by step guide with an occasional picture to demonstrate the steps that are awkward to type out.

      I don’t need a 30 minute video complete with an introduction/plot/climax to show me how to use foam sheets for cosplay pauldrons, and then another one for gauntlets.

      When did these become the rule rather than the exception?!

    • @JasonDJ@vlemmy.net
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      52 years ago

      They have their place but I totally get you.

      For example, when I’m planning a big home project, I want to watch a lot of DIY channels (plug for Home Renovision here) on the basic procedure.

      But, if I’m repairing my dryer, I don’t want to be unlocking my screen, rotating, hitting play, watch a few seconds, pause, put it down, work, repeat. Just give me something I can print out ffs.

  • Hot Saucerman
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    My old person trait is that none of the things mentioned in the linked image happened on accident.

    They happened because capitalism doesn’t give a fuck about anything except bleeding as much money as conceivably possible out of each and every human.

    1. Apps allow companies to suck more data out of your device than a website, allowing them to sell more of your data and… make more money.

    2. Video games needing access to the internet is simply Digital Rights Management and a way to prevent piracy and… make more money. Remember, most companies view something pirated as a “lost sale,” not that you would have never purchased it to begin with. As Gabe Newell once said:

    “We think there is a fundamental misconception about piracy. Piracy is almost always a service problem and not a pricing problem,” he said. “If a pirate offers a product anywhere in the world, 24 x 7, purchasable from the convenience of your personal computer, and the legal provider says the product is region-locked, will come to your country 3 months after the US release, and can only be purchased at a brick and mortar store, then the pirate’s service is more valuable."

    1. This one speaks for itself. Being able to be in control of the products you buy is freedom. Having products controlled remotely by a corporation is giving them carte blanche to make more money off of you.

    2. Removing accessible customer service means more people will just give up on trying to get their problem solved, effectively allowing the company to steal from people and… shocker… make more money.


    I agree, in theory, in respect to ghosting, but we live in a society that teaches us to be isolated, and doesn’t teach interpersonal skills unless the interpersonal skill is “Fuck you, got mine.” (which is, not surprisingly, a thing about making more money.)

    In other words, these aren’t old people opinions. These are “I’m not gonna let capitalism absolutely fuck me endlessly” opinions.

    • @Aceticon@lemmy.world
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      152 years ago

      At least in Europe I suspect those of us who grew up before neoliberalism took over in the 80s have a different take on the normality of the whole “being treated as a mark to scam money of 24/7” thing…

    • KSP Atlas
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      62 years ago

      In terms of piracy, I wonder how much could be prevented by having demos, like Factorio does

      • Hot Saucerman
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        Demos used to be everywhere back in the day! I think they have a huge impact, because it’s a way to try to play a game without dumping all the money on it without knowing what the gameplay is like and if its actually fun.

        When I was a kid, DOOM having the first episode of the game available as shareware was huge and I used to walk to my friends place after school and watch him play until he would get bored and let me play for a while.

        From an old interview in 1999 with John Carmack about this very subject (emphasis mine):

        Carmack: DOOM 2 was explicitly a commercial release. We sort of half heartedly did some shareware distribution with Quake, but I think the industry has almost unanimously decided that the three or so level demo is the best test vehicle.

        A lot of people consider themselves to have “finished DOOM” when they just finished the shareware episode.

      • @DrQuint@lemmy.world
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        122 years ago

        Funny how Steam has been making sales and events around demos for a while (called Next Fests) and some games absolutely blow up out of nowhere thanks to them.

        Also some people think FF16 having a demo was some weird, oddball marketing move by Square Enix, except they have been making “try now, continue later” demos for games since Bravely Default.

    • @onlinely@lemm.ee
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      2 years ago

      Where do I sign up to buy the awards around here?

      Kidding…great post, tho

      • @ShlorpianMafia@lemmy.world
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        42 years ago

        That’s what the emojis are for. Unlike the shitshow most of us just came from, here it doesn’t cost real money to add a tiny picture of 🏅 to a comment.

    • @dotslashme@infosec.pub
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      52 years ago

      It’s specifically capitalism driven by GDP. Capitalism is bad but adding GDP is like removing any ethic and moral compass.

    • @Percy@lemmy.one
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      12 years ago
      • Well said, I’m going to save this for when my friends inevitably say something about it and I have to explain why the economy, expessially in the US sucks and why I might eventually leave
  • @nik282000@lemmy.ml
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    I think cars should not be dependent on a touch screen for ANY of it’s functions (or really have one at all). They are more difficult to use than tactile buttons, distracting, and do not receive long term support from the OEM.

    What do you do with a 10 year old car that runs but the touch screen nuked due to age, firmware bugs or mechanical damage? Ford isn’t going to be selling replacement units 10 years later and I have yet to see an ‘infotainment’ system that has aftermarket replacement considerations.

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      Nice try, Steve who lives in San Francisco and walks their dog every day at 8:41 am.

    • I’ve heard people talking about not wanting global internet identities and I, having the same thought you do, don’t see how it would be a problem if you kept your real Identity out of it.

      Partly because I like the idea of becoming famous but without people knowing who you really are.

  • @relevant_user_name@lemmy.ml
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    532 years ago

    My old person trait is I shouldn’t have to scan a QR code for the menu at a sit-down where I’m dropping $100 on entrées. Give me a dang physical copy of the menu!

  • TWeaK
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    512 years ago

    I hate all websites that move things around as they load. If I see a button, that button should stay where it is when I try to click it.

    • @mrnomoniker@lemmy.studio
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      62 years ago

      The number of times the “news” headline display shows me something that catches my interest and then disappears and refreshes to something else before I was able to finish reading it infuriates me.

    • aname
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      52 years ago

      Your old person trait is that modern UI should follow the same sane UI design guidelines as theybused to in the past. In your example, the UI elements should not move around unexpectedly. :)

      I agree with you whole heartedly.

      • TWeaK
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        32 years ago

        Not even that so much. I mean, I get that UI needs to adapt to the screen size it’s being displayed on, rather than older sites that would end up malformed on different displays.

        All I ask is that the page figure all that shit out before it displays anything to the user. Figure out where it wants to put the buttons, then put the buttons there. That, and get rid of bullshit slow animations that only exist so that a web designer can showcase to their client, rather than accept input from the users. “Look how smooth it slides out when you hit that button!” Fuck that, I just want to click the next button as soon as possible - and ideally minimise the number of clicks to get to what I want.

        Saying that though, I do have a soft spot for old Unix systems. The kind that were kind of slow loading pages, but if you knew what the page contained you could press a bunch of keyboard keys and go through and queue up instructions for page after page. It would take a few seconds for the computer to catch up with your input, but it would process it all and you’d end up where you wanted to be.

        People shouldn’t be waiting for computers, computers should be working to make work easier for the user.

      • TWeaK
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        22 years ago

        It should pause when your mouse hovers over. I mean, google already monitor that kind of shit with all their ad scripts and crap, the least they could do is pass on some benefit to the user.

    • @superflippy@beehaw.org
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      12 years ago

      Muscle memory matters! The original MacOS designers believed this. Now, all software seems to have abandoned this idea.

  • @Calabast@vlemmy.net
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    In regards to OP’s comment about ghosting, I just want to ask, are you a man? Because women all-too-often have to deal with men who can’t take no for an answer, and some of those men go from mad to violent very quickly. You might say “well, no man should act that way, they should be able to hear ‘I don’t want to see you anymore’ and just accept it and move on” but the fact is they are not all able to do that. So should women do the respectful thing and stop ghosting, even though some of them definitely WILL end up being yelled at/attacked/killed?

    (I know my example doesn’t cover all situations involving ghosting, like for instance if the ghoster is a man. If you want to modify your claim to be ‘ghosting is unacceptable, except in cases where having a face-to-face conversation could put someone in danger’ then I guess I’d agree with that statement. It’s just that it’s really hard to know which person will be dangerous when they are turned down.)

  • @littlecolt@lemm.ee
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    As someone who works in a call center, screw that last person on here. So sorry you hate the automated system. Sorry you had to wait on hold. They can’t keep enough of us employed because y’all are fucking mean and no one wants to be abused for $15/hr.

    Er, I mean, Thank you for calling, sorry about your wait!

  • gk99
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    My old person trait is dislike of video-form social media. I consider blaring my phone speakers at max volume disrespectful to those in my surroundings and generally annoying.

    Hence why my social media of choice was reddit and is now lemmy+kbin. It’s mostly text posts and images.

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        Maybe they can use them to buy some headphones. Some problems already have adequate solutions.

        • @RaoulDook@lemmy.world
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          32 years ago

          No, if anyone is playing their garbage TikTok videos on phone speakers in public, they are the person who should be wearing the headphones.

          • Jee
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            62 years ago

            Isn’t that what they said? As original post mentioned that they hated using their phone speakers in public.

            • @RaoulDook@lemmy.world
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              Yeah I suppose you’re right, but it’s phrased in a way to sorta indicate that they mean other people should not do that from the way I read it.

  • @kinther@lemmy.world
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    My old person trait is I hate short-form videos e.g. Instagram reels and TikTok videos. The back and forth boomer vs millenial vs gen z videos remind me of someone who is talking to themself with different personalities.