• @ch00f@lemmy.world
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    2613 days ago

    I once had a conversation with my girlfriend where she didn’t get a joke. I had to explain it to her and when she got it she said “oh, yeah. lol”

    But the “lol” was said like the way you’d say “right” or “got it.”

    “lol” expressed that it was funny, but the tone expressed understanding.

    • southsamurai
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      1013 days ago

      I remember the first time I said lol out loud.

      It was strange, because I wasn’t even a fan of it to begin with, but it snuck into my head, and one Christmas, I was talking with a cousin telling a story, and said that I “loled”.

    • JokeDeity
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      613 days ago

      Did she spell it or say “lull”? I started doing that with friends in high school and it accidentally stuck.

  • halyk.the.red
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    713 days ago

    Kinda funny seeing a post about the written word so flagrantly disregard appropriate use of punctuation.

      • halyk.the.red
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        12 days ago

        I had no idea I was clipping my own wings by avoiding horrendous run-ons.

    • @Mac@mander.xyz
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      212 days ago

      I dunno… Sentence formatting to convey meaning? You could argue this is punctuation.

  • @ggtdbz@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    312 days ago

    I haven’t read it, but someone looked into this type of thing and wrote a book called Because the Internet.

    I think the author is a linguist but I don’t remember.

  • @FozzyOsbourne@lemm.ee
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    312 days ago

    Maybe it’s because I never used Tumblr, but most of this just infuriates me. I’m sure it has a lot of meaning to those in the know, but I usually assume that if you’re typing like that then you haven’t learned how to speak in full sentences yet.

    • @other_cat@lemmy.zip
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      412 days ago

      I think it’s less of a Tumblr thing and more of a “how much time do you spend online talking to people” thing. Or maybe more of an instant messenger and tumblr just has a lot of that demographic. Most of my friend group is online, and has been for decades now, so I lean more into what the OP is saying because it’s true–it is very difficult to convey tone through words alone, and playing with spelling and grammar and diction creates a more nuanced language. That said it is reliant that the audience you’re engaging with have that same understanding. I’ve talked to some people through text who gave me the same reaction you have, and they were people I didn’t regularly engage with. The in-language probably made sense to them and their friends though.

      • @FozzyOsbourne@lemm.ee
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        312 days ago

        Yeah, definitely seems like it’s just a particular slang/style for people in that specific group. I’ve been online for a long time now, I used txt tlk when tech limitations actually necessitated it, but swipe keyboards have been faster to use for at least a decade now so I dunno why some people still type that way!