• @Wanderer@lemm.ee
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    12 days ago

    There is being friends with a hot girl but then there is being passed over because you aren’t a dick.

    Luckily it wasn’t me but I heard some girl say “I think your hot but you’re just too nice”

    Like what the fuck haha. I know they didn’t want a relationship either and she fucked someone else like a day later. Talked to others and asked why they passed over some boy for another and it’s not attraction it’s that they aren’t dickheads.

    It’s a hill I’ll die on some girls definitely need that.

    • rand_alpha19
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      112 days ago

      Well, yeah, some are like that. That’s why we have “bad boy” stereotypes and the saying “nice guys finish last.” Women want men they can relate to and enjoy being around, and some women enjoy being with guys that aren’t respectful of things/people that they don’t have an emotional connection to. Most women I’ve met don’t want that type of guy.

      • @Wanderer@lemm.ee
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        212 days ago

        That guy definitely does better on the one night stands.

        But the real mistake “nice guys” make is they are too picky and choose the “right one” then focus on her. The real trick is if a girl isn’t interested in you immediately lose interest and find someone else. If you are properly in the friendzone 9/10 that girl will then be pissed off with you because even though she didn’t want, you someone else did.