some straight guy i was friends with was obsessed with me. he only cared if i liked men and had a bf for some reason, and would ignore that i liked women. he would act like i was straight and that if i dated women, that just meant i was single and obviously interested in him.

  • @LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net
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    1 month ago

    Ironic because bi is the largest queer demographic but also the one that can blend in the easiest which hasn’t forced people to advocate for acceptance.

    • @jol@discuss.tchncs.de
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      91 month ago

      And is also a spectrum. Most people would probably be bi, if social pressure didn’t exist. It’s honestly weird to think that anyone would be 100.00% gay or straight.

      • KSP Atlas
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        81 month ago

        If you think about it enough you realize that the labels aren’t perfect and sexuality isn’t split into neat labellable categories

      • HubertManne
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        129 days ago

        I think this is a bit of a fantasy. Numbers might be higher but I doubt majority.

      • @HelixDab2@lemm.ee
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        129 days ago

        100%? No. When you put people in situations where they’re entirely segregated by the sex they were assigned at birth, people tend to take same-sex partners even though they would not consider themselves to be gay or bisexual. On the other hand, my guess is that most people probably round up; e.g., if it’s very, very rare for them to be interested in someone that’s the same gender, they probably think of themselves as being straight.