• @daggermoon@lemmy.world
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    111 month ago

    Sorry, I thought the implication was that someone intentionally slept with one in. I don’t know how you’d sleep like that.

    • @shneancy@lemmy.world
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      201 month ago

      falling asleep is the easy part, the hard part is waking up with a sore asshole knowing you need to make it worse to make it better

      • @glitchdx@lemmy.world
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        81 month ago

        That’s why hard plugs are for short periods of fun times, and soft plugs are for all day / all night usage.

        Speaking from experience.

        • @MissGutsy@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          41 month ago

          Don’t do this too often though! Prolonged dilation (>2 hours) can damage your sphincter and give you incontinence in the long run. Probably not a problem if done rarely, but if it happens regularly it can become a problem

          • @glitchdx@lemmy.world
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            21 month ago

            Sadly, there’s a lack of formal studies to determine how often is too often. I think “pay attention to your body” is generally good advice. If anything is sore or hurting, it’s probably time to take a break. Kegel exercises also help keep the sphincter from weakening over time, useful advice even for people who aren’t into butt stuff.

      • @pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        21 month ago

        I mean, your hole shouldn’t be sore in the morning unless you’re sizing up with a new plug. Especially not with a stereotypical conical thin necked black silicone one. I’ve slept with plugs with a neck diameter of like 1.25" before

      • @daggermoon@lemmy.world
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        11 month ago

        I’m aware of it, though I wish I wasn’t. I’m in to some weird shit but that’s too much for me. I think I’d prefer the butt plug.

        • KillingTimeItself
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          11 month ago

          fascinating. I would think someone would be more keen to engage in chastity, than penetrables, but to each their own i suppose.

          • @daggermoon@lemmy.world
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            11 month ago

            It’s too much control or trust to place in another person. Even If I didn’t have trust issues, It’s not something I’d ever be comfortable with. Like you said, to each their own however.

            • KillingTimeItself
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              11 month ago

              that’s fair, though nobody said you had to involve other people, that’s just a particularly common and relevant practice. But yes ultimately at the end of the day, it only matters what we care, and don’t care for. I just find it interesting knowing why people care about certain things over others.