I remember a fellow thespian explaining it as a perverse take on being desired. It was hot for her that she seemingly turned [her partner] on so much that he did anything he could to access her. She then went on to say that if it was a stranger, and if she could tell they did it because of her allure, she believed she could forgive them. I quit that troupe soon after for unrelated reasons.
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I remember a fellow thespian explaining it as a perverse take on being desired. It was hot for her that she seemingly turned [her partner] on so much that he did anything he could to access her. She then went on to say that if it was a stranger, and if she could tell they did it because of her allure, she believed she could forgive them. I quit that troupe soon after for unrelated reasons.
Sounds like she was a narcissist, personally.
Definitely abusive. Often narcissism and abusive behavior go hand in hand