You’ll get it for real when you realize it’s not a “men bad” thing but more of a “people bad” kind of thing. Everyone has the capacity to do wrong, and a lot of people choose not to overcome that. Men are just typically in more of a position of power to be able to do larger acts of wrongdoing, and have historically either been punished lightly or not at all for many insidious crimes because of their predisposition to power.
By removing the language of “private” from the feature they can now sell your data without having to tell you about it